I used to feel lost and confused about who I was and what I wanted for my life.
I was a totally addicted approval seeker,
always comparing myself to others,
and trying to be someone I was not.
I was an expert performer! And proudly so!
Not really knowing who I was when I left school,
I applied to study medicine.
I spent the next seven years studying hard, and then another ten years in general medical practice, all the while performing.
Denying the feeling that I was trying hard to be someone I'm not.
The thing is, I had a deep secret.
A secret kept from the world. A secret hidden from myself too.
My secret: My life was all a performance. A script I was following, but a script written by the world around me.
I wanted something different for my life.
I wanted to write my own script.
And once I became aware of this secret, it terrified me!
I kept this secret for AGES, until finally, one day, I simply knew I needed to confront it.
I finally found the courage.
Confronting this meant owning my unhappiness,
walking away from medicine, and figuring out how to live without constantly performing for someone.
That's when reality hit hard, because I discovered I had
NO IDEA where to start.
I had no idea who I was without performing!
The next 7 years felt like wondering through the wilderness...
Until thankfully, my travels led me to a friend who
introduced me to the world of life coaching.
Working with a life coach literally changed my life!
After working through a few sessions, I finally saw light!
if there was ever going to be hope of no longer performing,
I needed to find myself. To discover what was always inside of me.
To know my worth. To accept my worth.
To accept permission to be true to the woman
God created me to be.
This journey is for you too.
I've created videos to walk you through the 3 foundational steps I took to end the way of performance and to start living in overflow.